He aint right

Dear Trap Mary, 
How do you tell someone that the guy they are dating/seeing is really not into her. He's along for the ride. 
Signed, 
I got the 411

Dear 411,

I always advise my people to stay as drama-free as possible. Telling someone something like this could lead up to a lot of 
drama (for you, the girl that you want to tell, and the person that is using her). However, if you feel that you must tell her...if it's eating you up inside, then you must do it tackfully AND carefully. First, find out for sure that this is true; I mean, how do you know what he is doing or feeling unless he told you himself. He say/she say isn't good enough when dealing with matters of 
the heart.

Secondly, if you know for sure that this is ABSOULOUTLY the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth...then try to at least have some proof to provide to her in addition to your admission. Do you have it on recording that he's using her? Do you have a witness? See....if you come to her half-assed (sorry for my french), then she may go straight to him and confront him, and he can easily wiggle himself out of it-then you're left looking like a liar and a fool.

If you don't have any proof but don't really want to put yourself out there, send an anonymous email account to her filling her in with the 411. Once she has the information, it's up to her what she does with it. Now, I don't EVER condone playing games-but I personally know someone who got killed for meddling in someone else's relationship business, and so Dear Trao Mary doesn't want you to put yourself in harm's way over something that has nothing to do with you at all. If you can turn the cheek and just let them be, then do so. They are grown and accountable for their own lives.

Hope this helps, Let me know.

Dear Trap Mary