What she wishes he knew:

What she wishes he knew:

1)  I need you to keep me safe and secure

2) don't judge me by your past relationships

3) I am not your ex

4) I need you to be the priest of the home

5) help me plan romantic events and getaways

6) things and money won't replace or eliminate my need for your time or interaction with me

7) be consistent in whatever course you choose

8) keep me as your top priority

9) pay attention to what I like or don't like

10) don't make me have to repeat the same requests

11) I need your help with household chores and helping with the children

12)  I need some me time occasionally

13) if I don't want to have sex tonight it doesn't mean I don't love you or that our love is growing cold

14) your kind words and pursuit of me helps me to feel appreciated, loved, to feel romantic and desirable, and to get in the mood for intimacy--let each flow
all day and not just at bedtime

15) don't share what I confide in you with anyone else

16) hurtful words never fade and they are a sexual turnoff to me

17) I need you to stand up to your mother when she disrespects me or bypasses me to make requests of you as though I don't exist

18) I work too, so be considerate and give me a break from all the household chores--a night eating out or bringing takeout home is always welcomed

19) I love it when you think about romance and intimacy with us and not just sex

20) help me to enjoy lovemaking too and don't treat me like a porn star or side piece

21) sometimes I need your ears and not just your advice. I don't want you to fix all my problems, but I do want to know you are listening and that you always care

Apostle Dorsey